Occasionally I’ll check out those blogs that just post pics of sexy men n what not, hit the archive and it basically looks like they did the brown paper bag test on their content…..
Major side eye to what ive started calling the light skinned blogs….
What do you think are some necessities in order to be ready to date?
Emotional, financial, and sexual security in oneself.
Not to mention the actual desire vs feeling pressured by society/friends/fam etc..
Hand in hair syndrome at all times.
This is every person with an afro
damn our hair is beautiful!
all the time
i play with my hair so much to the point that i’m a “distraction to others”
What is disaster pornography? Africans define it as the Western media’s habit of blacking out Africa’s stock markets, cell phones, heart surgeries, soaring literacy and increasing democratization, while gleefully parading its genocides, armed conflicts, child soldiers, foreign debts, hunger, disease and backwardness.
When str8 people, specifically my current co workers, ask me about marriage/pairing/relationships I think they really are surprised and dont understand why or how I could possibly not be interested in it. Ive been called anti gay for saying marriage equality isnt the most important thing the gay community should be worried about.
Yeah… get into that…
Although ive pretty much attempted to make it clear that I dont want to be in a relationship statements like “if u had a boyfriend u’d be nicer, I want to meet the dude that will tame you, if u werent such a bitch guys would like u……
Get into all of that…. I won’t and can’t….. I hate people
There was a time where I did post a lot about mainstream gay news, because that’s really all I knew at the time. I wasn’t aware of the dynamics at play and it took me awhile to realize that mainstream gay news does not need my help at all.
This is even more apparent as I move up the class ladder…
This! This is why I find it so hard to support publications like instinct mag, or even really get into channels like logo, etc I just feel like it’s so targeted to white middle-upper class gay and str8 (the whole see we’re like u guys thing) that I just feel lefted out. Sigh. So much to type not enough energy.